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Formosa Lan
Bay Area, CA
Blogger since 2010
Full-time Student; UC Irvine
Taiwanese &JP Culture
I seek satisfaction where I am, rather than where I wish I was heading. An openhearted leo personality. This is the spot where I secretly share and express my ongoing thoughts and feelings in words with you...

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What is wrong with Nicki Minaj’s recent song, ‘Lookin Ass?’ This song has been on repeat because I like to listen to it… 

But what the heck is wrong with the song? “It goes as deep as men being congratulated for making songs like ‘Loyal’ but when Nicki Minaj makes ‘Lookin Ass’, it’s a problem.” Why are some of these people just start complaining about the lyrics though. It sure uses a lot of N words, so what? Don’t most rap songs today all just a constant diarrhea of N word? The hatred towards women is NO WHERE near compared to the “hatred” to men. And women get insulted for most things they do.

Men use foul language all the time, so why can’t women? I don’t understand how people are only complaining about this Music video is because the singer is female. It is so common for men to degrade women. So when Nicki is putting men in their place, it is wrong? Nicki raps whatever she likes and uses offensive words just like a lot of male rappers do today. I mean, if men can do it, then so can women.

Her talent is the ability TO rap. This song does it’s job, which can be to piss off men who are offended by women who wanna do what they want.

Also, her clothing isn’t ‘inappropriate’. She isn’t wearing anything less than someone would wear to the beach. Why can’t women just be allowed to wear whatever they what and express them self in any way they see fit??

Men get to be shirtless in public. Men get to wear saggy pants showing off their ass. Men get to show off their muscles and all that. Why cant women show off their body and skin? And what is the problem with women being half naked in public? Why can man do it and woman can’t do so?

I just think what her song here, trying to get at is that she shouldn’t have to wear more ‘respectable’ clothes to be treated with respect. She should be able to wear what she likes and get the respect that everyone deserves, without having others be prejudice and assume that she’s a ‘slut.’

This is 2014, but it’s still hard to stop society belittling and blaming women for what they do/wear..

Why should I even care or be slightly mad at you? Why should I even be hating you for going out to Vegas every other weekend . Why should I care that you wouldn’t bring me with you. And why should I be unhappy when you never try to hang out on the weekend but only on the weekdays. Why does it bother me sometimes when you are trying to be away on the weekend  ?

No, I should not bother to care about any of this. We are not anything. We are not anything close either..but at the same time, we are close and intimate. Like what the heck..?. It’s kind of hard to express my thoughts right now. By I really hate the feeling that we actually are so close but yet seem so distant from each other ? That’s right.

Why can’t a man have an idea how important sharing feelings, emotions, and experiences are to his close ones?
Why can’t a man actually learn how to treat a woman and appreciate what he has? Maybe he’s more interested in something else. Maybe he is more into/and distracted from something else.. Maybe. I don’t know.


Nicki Minaj - Lookin’ Ass now on VEVO!

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.
Reyna Biddy (via kushandwizdom)
Happiness is strange; it comes when you are not seeking it. When you are not making an effort to be happy, then unexpectedly, mysteriously, happiness is there, born of purity, of a loveliness of being.
Jiddu Krishnamurti (via cereal-chiller)

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It irritates me when people start to hit you up to hang out or start talking to you after they see you in pictures on social media.. on facebook or instagram. Y’all can be the corniest people on earth. you might as well just not talk to me at all. don’t bother me.

It doesn’t serve you to expect someone to love you a certain way, and then be disappointed when they don’t. We all have limitations. You can’t be reduced by what someone else is unable to give.
With Grace & Guts (via creatingaquietmind)

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some snapchat footage….


Clean Bandit - Rather Be